Are you playing hide and seek with your business?   

Do you feel embarrassed, insignificant, or ashamed when your inner voice tells you that you are not good enough. ...That you don't have what it takes.


Maybe that monkey mind or inner gremlin of a voice keeps you second guessing yourself.

Perhaps you doubt or sabatogue yourself?

Maybe, you are reluctant to show up with all of your divine gifts and abilities.

Maybe, just maybe, you are reluctant or anxious that the small voice inside of you says you are an imposter trying to compete and be like the big achievers. 

Does your inner voice say statements like: 

"Who do you think you are?"

"You don't know enough!"

"This isn't good enough."  

"You are not good enough"

"You can't charge that!"

"Don't be weak"

"Don't do that, they won't like you!"

"Don't be an idoit"

"Who do you think you are?!"

Maybe you play safe (and small) so others don't notice you. 


The Problem Is...

    Playing Small (and Hiding) doesn't serve you financially nor the people you serve
  • When we don't know how to be self aware and have self mastery of our inner criticizing voices, we listen to, react, and believe a false expressions  of ourselves
  • We may go our entire lives limiting ourselves due to our inner critique without experiencing the freedom and joy of by being a prisoner of our own making.

Playing small and hiding is a very common issue between small business owners and solopreneurs. 

Listening to and being sabotaged by your inner voice leads to playing small and hiding… An issue that’s impairing your business’ growth big time.


Have you ever walked in a room of colleagues, only to feel small and not deserving to be there? In this fast-paced world, things are always on the move and shifting: It’s hard to keep up with everything while feeling certain and brave at the same time. To walk into any room and be the most confident person, that is a very challenging task...One that you may not be good at.

Many business owners and solopreneurs share specific qualities that are vital for growing a business: They are passionate, resilient, focused on opportunities, and comfortable with risks.

But the most important quality they might possess is not being sabotaged by their inner voice (self talk). 

Very confident entrepreneurs are better poised to start and succeed in their business.

Have you ever heard of the Law Of Attraction?

According to it, you attract whatever your mind is focused on.

If, during a sales pitch, you are more worried about asking for a very high price rather than closing the sale, then you are bound to set things up for failure big time.

If you stop playing small, you are more likely to go after opportunities and step confidently and powerfully in the work you are here to do. Lives are waiting for you to show up with your gifts. .

Think of how many times you have said “No” to something just because you were scared of it: Where would your business be right now? How much could you have achieved and progressed if you only had the courage and the confidence to embark on a new journey and not let our fears or inner voice hold you back?

As of right now, obstacles may even appear bigger and scarier than they actually are… Making you feel stuck in place, with no clear direction to follow.

And yet, you don’t have what it takes to make a step forward and change things up,  or you find yourself still getting sabotages from your Inner judgment voice.


You don’t have the strength of character to share your ideas and make them count, and that annoying Imposter syndrome is taking you back from reaching the summit of success.

So what if I told you there was a way to move past your uncomfortableness, your fears, and your lack of confidence - to design a breakthrough structure that will allow you to show up powerfully and authentically no matter the situation?

I have set up a 5 Days Stop Playing Small Challenge with your needs in mind!

Thanks to effective training and coaching sessions facilitated by me, a Professional Certified Integral Coach, Certified Enneagram Teacher, and Authorized Workshop Facilitator with the Enneagram Institute - you’ll be able to embrace the self talk and confidence you are lacking! Together we will work on your fears and motivations to get you out of the comfort zone, boost your sales, and develop a solid, magnetic presence that attracts more clients!


Sign up to join the Challenge

only $7

Secure your place in the Stop Playing Small Challenge and learn to stop playing small and sabatoging yourself with your inner voice.

Stop Playing Small and Hiding!
become the powerful, authentic World Changer that Your People Are waiting for!!!
    Learn how to master the self talk that sabotages and holds you back
    Gain an easy to use method to calm your fears and hesitantions for when the fears, shame, and insecurities voice themselves
  • Discover how to turn your inner gremlin voice from being a monster to your super hero and ally.

... for only $7


Challenge starts Sept. 14th, 2020


9am PDT / 10am MDT / 11am CDT / 12pm EDT / 5pm BST / 6pm CEST


I am just a human, just a person, dedicated to helping everyone connect with the fullness and richness of life. Known as a highly trained coach, speaker, educator, mentor, and a leading expert on the Enneagram and personal transformation. 

I help individuals and groups experience what it means to be a human being. To explore, to taste, to try things out, to dare to do the uncomfortable, to be their fullest selves. I help people understand the complexities of what makes them beautiful, and how to break through their shame, fear, and ego. And I do so in a way where people re-define their own identity, through the power and integrity of their own inner wisdom.

From various bouts of abandonment and homelessness as a child, I rose to being the student body president of my college and a legendary fundraiser on its behalf. I would go on to significant success supporting non-profits before moving towards my current path of personal engagement. Challenged by a series of rare health conditions throughout my life, I bring a truly unique perspective to the work I do, coupled with a powerful personal motivation behind it.


I hold a Master’s Degree in Education (focusing on Adult Training and Development),  a Professional Certified Coach, and is an Accredited Enneagram Teacher by the Enneagram Institute.

I invite you to, learn how to find contentment, joy, and glory in who and what you are, and set yourself up with a new definition of success.

Just know that you are a gift the world is waiting for.

I see you, I believe in you. 

And I hold in my heart your greatness!

I’m a small business owner just like you. I understand the risk you feel when deciding to invest in a challenge. You work hard for your money and don’t want to waste it.

I’m extremely proud of the products, services, and challenges I create, and I know anyone who buys them and implements the strategy will be thrilled with their purchase.

That’s why I’m offering a 7-day money back guarantee. While I can’t guarantee that your life and dreams of being a mega super star will happen, I can guarantee your satisfaction with the quality of the challenge, and the time and stress it will save you.

Of course, If you’re not happy with the challenge, I will refund your money within 30 days of your purchase.



What’s standing in the way of you finally making the difference and impact, and stop playing small and hiding? One of the main answers- you! Your fear, shame, and reluctance. Yet, it doesn’t have to be that way! 

Are you ready to do the work during the week of the challenge? You are worth it. Don't let the fears, shames, and self sabotages stop you. This challenge is designed so that you can deliver your services, get paid, stop procrastinating, show up powerfully and authentically, and be the visionary leader your people need you to be!  


This is a special offer AT $7 and the challenge is only open for a limited time. You don’t want to miss this opportunity.

Frequently Asked Questions

  •    How much time do I need to block to participate?

The daily challenge calls last about an hour starting at 9am Pacific. I would give yourself 20 minutes a day to do the Show Up assignemnt.

  •    Will there be a recording of the challenge training?

If you miss the Live training, the replay will be available in the units tabs in the Facebook group until Tuesday after the challenge ends. If you sign up for the VIP Experience, you will have the recordings after the the challenge.

  •    Why are you charging $7?

Simple answer, with something that is free, often times people don't show up. I want you to be committed to your success as much as I am. As they say, putting some skin in the game. Plus every sign up allows for me to give a donation to three projects that are dear to my heart- UC Davis Vet hospital who  has saved the lives of my pup kids, and also treats all animals effected by fires fro FREE. I also support Lupus Foundation of America since well I have Lupus. And finally a new project- Brain Health Magazine which is ran by Amy Zellmer as a resource or people after traumatic brain injuries.

       Where will the challenge take place?

This challenge will be held inside our Facebook group. You will get email/text reminders. 

  •    When does the challenge start?

This challenges are held only a few times a year. This next challenge starts Sept. 14th. We will be meeting inside the Facebook Group with a Live video starting at 9am Pacific.

  •    Will there be prizes and how do I win?

I love giving way prizes. And yes, we will have daily prizes and grand prize. Prizes are given to based on random drawing for people who complete their Show Up work (homework that is fun!).. You must post your work inside the Facebook group by 10pm the day it has been assigned to be given credit. Grand prize entry must complete all five days of show Up work by 10pm pacific Friday of the last day of the challenge. Did I mention there will be prizes. Yay Prizes!

Get rid of the voice that holds you back, and turn it into your best friend who supports you and empowers you. I invite you to participate in my 5 Day Stop Playing Small Challenge, and radically change the way you approach your life and business!

Mellissa Rempferjoin